You don't have to go to School!!
Whether you love school, hate school, or are quite indifferent about school it is good to know that you don't have to go.
This is what this new section of the Jamboree is about.
Why You Don't have to Go to School
There is no law which says you have to go to
school and there are now thousands of children across the world who have opted
out of the system. If you have any problem with school, there is no reason
why you shouldn't be one of them too.
Your Parent's Cooperation
The only thing you need is the
cooperation of your parents. A little persuasion may be all that is
needed...
How to obtain it
There are a million reasons for disliking school, but it usually
takes one big one to push a child over the edge. To discuss things openly
with one's parent (s) can often be difficult and may sometimes feel like the
hardest thing in the world, but it is definitely the best thing to do.
If you can tell them directly how you feel, they are sure to understand.
There are not many parents who would knowingly send their children into a
situation of stress and suffering and if you can explain to them that this is how it is
for you, they may well do something about it.
Persistence is probably necessary too or they might think you were just having an
off-day!
The Parents' Concerns
Surprisingly enough, your parents send you to school with the best
intentions. They think that they are doing their best for you when they
put you into a situation where you can be with your 'friends' and
which will, in the long run, 'prepare you for the world'. They
are also worried that if you don't go to school you will spend your days doing
nothing. They forget that children have a natural desire for learning
which only school manages to suppress.
It is rather like worrying that a bird won't sing if you set it free from its
cage, because it seems to sing less every day. Of course once the bird is
free, it may hesitate at first, but it will soon sing sweeter than ever
before.
All these concerns
spring from love, but the opposite is actually true. A parent can do no
better for their child than to take them out of school.
Home Education
Home education is completely legal and completely possible. It is well within the reach of any
family and is really the perfect answer to all school problems.
Being home-educated does not mean that your parent has to become your 'teacher' (that would be a frightening prospect indeed!), it simply means you can pursue you own interests every day and your parent can help and support you. The younger you are the more this help is necessary.
The Advantages of Learning at Home
There really are thousands of advantages to learning at home.
They begin in the morning when you wake up with excitement and enthusiasm for
the new day, and end at night when you can go to bed with no dread of tomorrow,
the day after, or the day after that. Every day is like a holiday!
The one main advantage is that you can do what you want, whenever you want,
however you want. It is the difference that makes a slave a slave, a
prisoner a prisoner and a free man free.
When you get a Little Older...
Once you get to the age of 14, 15, or 16, the parent's cooperation is not quite
so important. They will obviously need to support you, but they don't have
to be with you all the time, and it is quite safe for you to be left
alone in the house while your parents are at work.
You are no longer a child any more and no one can make you do
anything. Unfortunately, exam-stress begins around this time and in the
hope and pressure of doing well, people never seem to think of leaving school. Of course, if someone genuinely wants to sit their
exams, then they should. But most often people do it simply
because they think they have to, they feel they ought to, or they don't know
what else they would do. Good advice is very rare, and one finds few
people (if any) to give one sensible suggestions at this important juncture of one's
life.
It is always advisable to remember that this is your existence, your precious time on this
precious earth. It would be such a shame if a single day got wasted.
Not doing your exams really isn't anything to worry about. I am eighteen
now and I have never sat a single one - it really doesn't make a difference.
| Personal
Experience: I have been to
school twice and here is my account of how I got out of it. The
first time I was only five, so I hadn't begun proper lessons yet.
However, I did dread the time when I would, and I told my parents
repeatedly that I didn't want to. Fortune was certainly with me
and events conspired in such a way as to make home-education a sudden
option - my comments may have been a contribution. The second time, I was aware that school was only temporary and I could always stop going. But actually telling my parents that I wanted to leave was unbelievably difficult. It is something to do with the nature of school that it shuts one off from one's family, and I remember noticing how little I talked to my parents any more. It ended in a flood of tears and begging to leave, and my mother sorted it out so that at the end of the term I did. |
Conclusion
All it takes is courage. Courage to either demand something more, or last
it through till the end.
The suffering, bullying and humiliation, that are all natural parts of the modern school
system should not be endured any longer. Life on this planet can be the
sweetest, most wonderful thing, and if you can just make it through the rest of
school unharmed then all that enjoyment can be truly yours.
If leaving school is not an option for
you, you can click here to read the article
"Coping with School".
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