Music


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Music is a subject perfectly suited to studying at home. To learn music without tests, exams, degrees, and certificates, is to learn music in the time-honoured, tried and tested, good, old-fashioned way. The aim is not to gain another's approval, the aim is enjoyment, which I think it really should be, because music has the potential to be so enjoyable.

Even in our modern society where such simple and basic pleasures such as gardening, sewing, knitting, drawing, and even cooking, are often cast aside, music has somehow managed to survive.

Everybody has their favorite song, their favorite CD, or their favorite style of music, - and yet how many people play music themselves?
I would say, that if listening to music is good fun, then it is as nothing when compared to the fun of making it. When you join in a song, you become a part of it, the music is not just floating into your ears, but is a part of you, and carries you away on its own special journey.

To describe the enjoyment of playing music would be impossible, but believe me, you really don't have to be good at the instrument to feel it. I am not very good at any instrument, yet I have experienced this incredible musical fun from the very beginning.

An Inborn Love of Music
Music is a part of everyone, and when that part is ignored a person must surely be missing out on one of the greatest pleasures of being human.

It is interesting to see the total lack of musical appreciation which animals possess. A song is played, and they will flap back their ears, look distressed, or run away in fear. But you only have to sing a song to even the tiniest baby to see how he loves it! As soon as a child can walk, they will start to dance when music is played.

This proves, to me at least, that a love of music and a sense of rhythm is innate.


The picture above is a scene from Brittany, where I live, and would have been a common sight a hundred years ago.

Putting People Off
From this promising beginning it is hard to work out how it all goes wrong. Most people don't play an instrument, and wouldn't want to try, those who do are considered in some way to be specially gifted; live music is almost solely heard at concerts, and one hardly ever hears people singing as they do things.

The world of music has become strangely inaccessible: the idea of playing an instrument is accompanied with concepts such as: starting at a young age, going to a teacher, studying how to read music, and generally having a difficult time, with the aim being to master the instrument. Most adults consider themselves too old to begin, the idea then becomes to pour their enthusiasm into their child and make them practise regularly, in the hope that they will thank them for it one day. This is a very depressing scenario. How it came to be this way, I don't know, but now that it has, perhaps it is not surprising how few people feel inspired to play music.

In the Past
I find it fascinating to read about how music was taught and played in days gone by. All cultures, all nations, all people, it seems, have shared the same passion for music, and until recently it has been a part of everyday life all over the world, and in some places it still is.

In the evenings when the work was done, somebody would start singing, and everyone else would join in, with voice or instrument. They would clap their hands, beat a drum, bang two sticks together, do anything to be a part of the song, and those who didn't want to play could dance, thereby making everyone involved. To me, this just seems normal, this is the way music should be. Like this, music is something for everyone, not just for a talented few. Learning an instrument is not painful or difficult, it is just joining in the medley, and naturally improving every time you play.

Once, I went to a concert of Zimbabwean musicians playing their traditional music. They had obviously learnt this way, and to watch them play was fascinating - it was so unpretentious. They weren't at all tense, they would sometimes stop playing to do something else, and then join in again a little later; they had no music, no notes they had to adhere to, they were sat down and looked relaxed and happy, enjoying what they were playing, whilst looking around and taking things in. They made playing an instrument seem like the easiest thing in the world, and what struck me more than anything, was how incredibly good they were!

Just because they were behaving in a wholly unprofessional manner didn't mean they were playing any less well. They were so good, and the music they were creating was so enjoyable to hear. And yet to have them sitting on a stage with spotlights and microphones, with us, like idiots, sitting in the theater, unable even to get up and dance, was a ridiculous and unnatural situation.

In a society where people sing as they do things, and end the day's work with music and dancing, it is easy, it seems, to learn to play an instrument well, without ever having 'lessons' or a teacher, or a music book, or exercises to practise, or anything which makes learning difficult. But our society today is far from being like this - there is no one to even show a beginner how to hold the instrument, and as one never hears the old songs sung, one has to be able to read music in order to gain access to them.

However, I believe that within a family it is not difficult to create an atmosphere like that of olden times. If the parents aren't intimidated by music, and they make instruments accessible to their children, if they sing as they do things, and learn an instrument themselves, then they will succeed in creating a musical atmosphere, like in days of old, in which learning an instrument is not difficult.
Although I don't remember it, the first music I ever heard must have been the songs which my parents sang to me whilst getting me to sleep, and I can't help thinking this the perfect introduction to music. My mother always sang around the house, and so we did too, making our lives something of a living musical!
If a parent doesn't play an instrument, they can learn, and if they don't have the time or inclination to do this, they can create a musical atmosphere by having instruments in the house for the children to try out, and singing as they do things.

Singing
I believe that through singing, more feeling can be expressed than through any instrument.  The incredible breath of life and the body itself is used, and not only can meaning be conveyed through the melody, as with any instrument, but through words as well. 
A book isn't really necessary to learn how to sing; practice and familiarity make one able to take a breath without gasping, sing without a quaver, and hit the high and low notes. If one sings, one gets good at it, although training is probably necessary if a person aims to sing in an operatic manner.
Of course, not everyone has what is considered to be a 'good' voice. If you are such a person, then you can take encouragement in the fact that when voices sing together, they sound good, even if individually they don't. Somehow, the best of the sound comes to the ears, and the worst of the sound is lost. But I can't help thinking that if somebody loves singing, they will sing well, even if their voice isn't 'good'. In the days of slavery in North America, singing was a way of life, and everybody, it seems, sang. They didn't all have good voices; some of them, by all accounts, were extremely husky, or squeaky, but because they sang all the time, and that was what they loved to do, and because they expressed their feelings in their voice, they sang well, and when they joined in with all the other singers on the plantation, and took their harmony, the result is said to have been amazing.

Advice to parents
A lot of parents want their children to play an instrument, and thereby begin what can often turn out to be a terrible experience for the child. I think that if you are a  parent who wants to buy your child an instrument you should really consider beforehand why you want your child to play.

If it is because you like music, then why not learn the instrument yourself? After all, this is probably the best way to make your child interested in music.

If it is because you think your child will play better if they start young, then why not remember that music lessons are often a source of suffering and terror for young children, and that playing an instrument is much harder for a child than an adult? Physically and mentally it is much more difficult, as I am sure you will remember yourself, if you went to music lessons when young. 

If it is because your children have expressed a desire to learn, then why not buy them the instrument and learn it with them? Why not help them as much as you can, but never remind them to practise, or make it seem like something they have to do. To play something well requires regular practice, and to practise something regularly requires a lot of drive and dedication, things which are difficult to have when one is young. Drive and dedication are not things you can give your child, they are things they have to have themselves. If they do have it, they will learn music in spite of you, if they don't have it, there is nothing you can do about it.

So why not let them know that you are most happy to encourage them in music, if they should want to play an instrument, and until then, focus on playing and enjoying music yourself.

I know that for me personally, I have a need to sing which goes beyond whether or not I have a good or a bad voice. If I don't want to bother people I will go and sing by myself, because I don't sing in the hope of pleasing other people, I sing because I need to. If I feel sad it can make me feel happy, if I am downcast, it has the power to raise my spirits. I know it is similar with listening to music too, but like I said, listening to music is not the same as actually making the music oneself.

Playing Music
Here are some tips about playing an instrument which I have found to be true:

Above all, have fun! I wish you the best of luck... 

 -Wendy Lewis

Feedback:
Hi Wendy, how are you well I hope? I have just finished reading you article and thought it was fantastic.

I have loved Music from my earliest memory's and always played music wherever I am in the world. Love to listen to music from all over the world.

Have been mixing dance music with computer software, and have now moved on to try to play some music. I have started with a set of bongo hand drums, maracas, tambourine and a set of drum sticks. I have had no academic music training. Yet with this few instruments and a little improvisation i.e. bottles, cans, and tins. My friends and I really enjoy making what we would like to call music (some would not agree).

This has lead me, to want to explore music as I have no other subject before in my life. And at the age of 44 that cannot be a bad thing. Also my oldest son is taking an interest in making music with computers and My other Children are always listening to music.

I always tell people music is the most natural thing in the world to bring people together, because it is the language of the world.

I have never seen an indigenous tribe that did not all dance together.

Once again great article, Cliff

Do you have any music tips, advice, or experiences you would like to share with other readers?
Please send a comment to
wendy@freedom-in-education.co.uk , and I will post it on-line.

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